14 Brutal Truths About Loving A Libra
Libras are some of the best people you’re going to have the privilege of meeting. That’s why it’s highly likely that you will fall in love with a Libra at least once in your lifetime. If you happen to find yourself interesting in winning the affection of a Libra, then you should definitely read this article in this entirety. The Libra are a special class of people when it comes to romance. Here are 14 things that you really need to know when you fall in love with a Libra.
1. A Libra is always attracted to generosity.
The reasons why Libras are attracted to generosity is because they are also incredibly generous people themselves. They espouse the philosophy that everyone needs to share more to promote harmony and balance in society. That’s why you can’t afford to be selfish if you want to win the affections of a Libra. You can also expect to be on the receiving end of a Libra’s generosity once you get them to trust you.
2. Libras are quite the charmers.
Libras tend to be very social and can win a lot of people over pretty easily. They’re not against going out to social events on a date. If things get serious, they’re also amazing with meeting the parents and have no trouble making a good first impression. There aren’t a lot of problems Libras can’t charm their way out of. When dating one, expect to be surprised by all the random favors people seem to love doing for your Libra. This is just their normal life!
Secretly, Libras are total suckers for flattery. You can never compliment a Libra too much - as long as it’s genuine, they can smell a lie a mile away.
Libra men are both sensitive and masculine at the same time. While Libra men love indulging in their masculine side they also can be incredibly sensitive and responsive when the situation calls for it.
A Libra woman is a hopeless romantic. The Libra woman may come off guarded, but she's got big dreams deep down. A Libra has lived through her share of romantic disappointments - just like everyone else - but she doesn't let them stop her from believing in a fairytale ending.
3. A Libra can be fickle-minded and indecisive.
A Libra will have difficult times making small decisions. So whenever you’re out on a date with a Libra, they would really appreciate it if you take the lead and make the decisions on their behalf. Have everything planned out. Know where you want to have dinner, what movie you want to see, and have all other details ironed out. This will impress a Libra.
4. A Libra likes to be in constant interaction with other people.
Libras have the best social skills in the Zodiac. They love socializing and have a knack for making people feel comfortable. People love them. People love to be around them. They are the wrong person to date if you are easily jealous or a total homebody, but the perfect person to date if you are looking for a partner in crime to take over the world with.
Listening is a Libra’s forte.
If you want someone who will listen to you rather than ignore or talk over you, then you don’t need to worry. Libras are very diplomatic and always up for listening to someone else’s point of view, especially if it belongs to someone they care about. They know that everyone is different, and even if they disagree with what you’re saying, they’ll always hear you out.
5. A Libra doesn’t like being left alone.
This could work perfectly well to your advantage. A Libra absolutely abhors spending an entire day being stuck at home alone. Make the most of this knowledge and invite a Libra out to spend some time with you. A Libra will always be open to the idea of going out and having some fun just as long as it means they don’t have to be at home alone.
Laziness is one of the negative traits of a Libra, but if you ask them, they’re not laziness, they’re simply recharging their batteries! A Libra needs down-time so that they can get their energy levels back up for you, make sure you let them have this quiet time and they’ll be back to their usual self in no time.
A Libra woman is selfless.
She always puts the needs of others before her own. From being there for her best girlfriends to never canceling on a date, she respects everyone else's time. Her selflessness can be destructive. Instead of taking care of herself, she spends most of her time taking care of the people she loves most.
6. A Libra has a very rational and analytical approach to things.
A Libra is one of the best people you could approach for advice. They tend to not let emotions cloud their judgement, and so they always have very objective perspectives of various situations. They are analytical and methodical beings that always use sound logic and reason to get themselves out of sticky situations. They also love it whenever they can be of help to other people, so don’t be shy about going to them with your problems.
Libras can also be incredibly hard on themselves. The best advice you can give your Libra is to not judge themselves more harshly than they would judge one of their dear friends.
7. A Libra doesn’t respond well to criticism.
As much as possible, try to avoid directly criticizing a Libra. They are a very proud bunch of people, and their egos can get easily damaged. A Libra may be confident, but on the inside, their insecurities are very much present. A meaningless critique will probably never cross your mind again after it is uttered, but it will linger inside the Libra's mind for a long time. That’s why you always have to be sensitive of their feelings, and be careful of whatever words you choose to throw their way. If they feel like you are attacking their character, they will immediately be defensive.
They rarely lose their temper.
It takes a lot to make a Libra mad. Notoriously cool and collected, a Libra takes a laidback approach to life and rarely lets anything really bother him/her. Libras like to stand back and watch situations play out before getting involved. Sometimes this can be very frustrating for someone who wants Libra to take action and Libra remains seemingly detached.
They will say sorry first.
While they might be reluctant to admit defeat, a Libra hates for a confrontation to last. Sure, they are stubborn. But they hate conflict too much to not give in to their own persistence. Inevitably, you will learn this weakness. Think being the first to apologize is a good thing? It might be, but if you want to impress a Libra, you absolutely cannot use it to your advantage. Surprise them with caving in first, and you will win a Libra over instantly.
8. A Libra is uncomfortable with conflict and arguments.
A Libra hates it whenever arguments or confrontations arise. They only like to promote peace and harmony. They will try their best to diffuse any heated moments because they are lighthearted creatures. They don’t like it when peoples’ blood pressures are boiling. They know that conflicts can only lead to bad things. That’s why they also never like to be the instigator of any confrontations or arguments.
But they are good at arguing their point.
One of the recommended careers for Libras is law because they’re so good at debating and fighting their corner. Even though they love living in harmony, when they’re in an argument, they’re really good at getting their points across. This doesn’t mean they’ll railroad you, though - they try to be fair and see things from all sides. It means you’ll never walk away wondering what they’re mad about, because they’ll tell you directly.
And they are also great mediators.
When two people really get into a disagreement, they probably should get a Libra to help settle it. They’re really good at finding solutions to disagreements and being fair to both sides, so don’t be afraid to open up about your problems.
9. A Libra is a perfectionist.
A Libra likes to do things a certain way, and they will not compromise in this. They are principled people who know that there are proper ways to do things, and they frown upon people who like to take shortcuts or who are content with mediocrity.
They seek out balance and elegance of form.
Libras truly dislike anything that is too overwhelming or smothering. They are the opposite of an all or nothing personality - they never go to extremes. Libras can’t ever have too much of something or they’ll pull away. They like to be surrounded by beauty, especially in their homes, and have a refined, modern, and expensive taste.
10. Libras need others to treat them fairly and with respect.
Just because they’re into you doesn’t mean they’ll accept being treated badly. Libras are all about seeking balance, and that includes their relationships. If they feel like they aren’t being respected, then they have no problem saying something or walking away. Don’t try to take advantage of them.
A Libra never forgets when someone has done them wrong.
A Libra is like an elephant. They have quite the memory. They are also very good at holding grudges. That’s why you never want to be on a Libra’s bad side because they will remember everything you’ve ever done to wrong them.
11. Be clear about your emotions. Avoid drama and be real.
Always, when you are dealing with a Libra, make sure that you are clear about your emotions and your intentions. A Libra likes to know exactly what is in your head, what you are feeling and where you are going. One of the best traits of a Libra is that they accept people as they are. They rarely judge or laugh at someone. Bullying is not their thing.
Libras are more fundamentally moral than other signs. They will have a very hard time lying or cheating someone longterm. They can’t stand dishonesty. Libras never get along with dishonest people and have trouble forgiving those who hurt them. Libras are all about fairplay and justice. They’re great diplomats. Any sense of dishonesty or unfairness from a potential significant other is the easiest way to lose their interest.
12. A Libra is greatly attracted to beauty.
The great thing about Libras is that they can tend to be extremely romantic and creative. Whether it be with a person’s physical beauty or personality, if you manage to espouse beauty, a Libra will truly appreciate it. They have a deep appreciation for creativity and natural beauty. It’s also the same when it comes to forms of art and music. Beauty tends to overwhelm a Libra and they are so easily smitten by genuinely beautiful things or people.
Libras like the finer things in life.
Libra is very romantic and one of its love languages leans towards giving gifts and going on nice dates from time to time. Libras tend to be old souls and appreciate the finer things in life. They are intelligent and have great taste when it comes to movies, music, books and art. They would love to get you excited about something that has excited them
13. It takes Libras a while to feel like they can commit.
Libras love love and they spend a lot of their young life focused on finding a partner. When they find one, they make them the center of their lives and social circle, in a coveted place above even their most treasured friendships. When Libras are about to start a relationship with someone, they make a little pro and con list of what might happen. They can have a fear of commitment because they’ve weighed every possible outcome and know that things might go sour. Don’t be too scared! Libras just need patience and to feel like you truly want commitment from them. They don’t want anything superficial; they want the real deal. When you get into a relationship with a Libra, make sure you have the intention to stay committed to them, because they don’t even waste their time with anything less.
Libras are extremely loyal once they’re committed.
Truth is, once you win their heart, they have the capability to make you special in the grandest way. If you have a Libra’s heart, they do everything just to make you loved and special. They will stick with their partners through thick and thin and are prone to long-term relationships. They love their partners and they aren’t scared to do anything and everything for them. Libras will stand by your side no matter what, and will not betray you for any reason. They don’t let their eyes wander to other potential mates or allow themselves to become emotionally involved with someone else. They want you, and only you.
14. It can be hard to break up with a Libra.
Even if Libras know a relationship isn’t working they’ll do everything they can to get their significant other to stay with them or to avoid a breakup altogether. Once they commit they truly commit so they often stay in unhealthy or non-working relationships for months or even years past when it should have ended. But after all, who can ever forget a Libra?