12 Reasons Why You Should Never Take A Virgo for Granted
Perfectionist Virgos aren't always the easiest signs to love, but if you're capable of it, they will be extremely loyal and loving. If you can keep some general things in mind when dealing with your Virgo friend, family member or romantic partner, you will have a much easier time getting along with him or her and reaching the depth of his or her loyal and loving heart. When a Virgo isn't getting appreciation in their relationship, they will find it somewhere else. Here are 12 reasons why you should never take a Virgo for granted.
Reason #1: Virgos are sensitive, so be considerate with your feelings.
Virgos will keep their feelings controlled because they know they are overly sensitive, and they don't want to overreact. Often, by the time you hear what's bothering them, it can come out in an explosive way because they've been bottling it up for so long. Give them a safe place to express these feelings, and don't lash out at them when they explode. They just need to feel heard, and once they get those feelings out, they can relax. Prepare yourself for the next blowup because unfortunately, it probably won't be any less explosive. Bottling things up is what they do best.
Reason #2: Virgos never chase after someone unless they are really important. Other than that you can walk out that door and don't come back.
In order to be with a Virgo, you have to work for it because they do not just date anyone. For the most part, once a Cancer gives up on a relationship, there is no going back. A Virgo will never beg for you to stick around. If they have to keep fighting for your attention, they will realize very soon that they don’t need you. They don’t waste their time and effort on something that they think will not work.
Reason #3: When a Virgo deeply cares about someone, they never give up on you.
Virgos don’t half-ass anything in their life and that includes love and relationship. They will give you their all and their best and it will be you that wonders if you can keep up with that. Fall in love with a Virgo because they will never stop fighting for you. They will never give up on you. They will never stop believing in all you are and all you can amount to. And they want to stand by you when you get there. A Virgo is very persistent when it comes to relationships but they are only strong, as long as you feed them with sincerity. Whenever they feel that your love for them lacks legitimacy, they will definitely consider leaving you.
Reason #4: Virgos say what they mean and mean what they say.
Virgos hate mind games, and they don't like to guess how you're feeling or make assumptions. It drives them nuts! They view mind games and withholding of emotions as immature and a complete waste of their energy. Open communication is key with a Virgo, but do so with tact, please. Being honest is one thing, and it's another when you're hurtful and inconsiderate. Remember they are sensitive creatures, so be up front with them in a loving, gentle way.
Reason #5: Virgos are the realest people you’ve ever met. Their honesty and ability to just not hide who they really are will motivate you to be your true self.
They will push you towards the things you are afraid of. The things your heart wants but your head tells you no. They will be the ones standing beside you if you make that decision that will change your life. Even if it’s crazy if it’s something you really want they will help you get there.
They calculate everything.
One thing you need to know about loving a Virgo is that they don’t rush into things. They analyze all the options, make a plan, and go from there. Some may call overthinking; they call it being prepared. Yes, a spontaneous road trip is great! But first let them just map our route; research food stops along the way, and line up some highly rated Airbnb locations.
Reason #6: Virgos are very insightful and intuitive, so always tell the truth and be genuine.
They can spot a liar a mile away, so don't be fake or dishonest. They value trust and honesty above all else, even if your honesty hurts. The upside is that they are very in tune with how people are feeling, and they will open the door to difficult subjects that need to be discussed. The downside is, it's difficult to keep anything from them, even if you are trying to protect them.They are sometimes too intuitive for their own good.
Reason #7: Virgos are very independent.
Don’t get me wrong Virgos love people, we love to socialize and make friends but please we are fiercely independent and like to do things on their own. They need an equal balance of time with you and time alone. Needy friends and mates won't last long with a Virgo. As soon as they feel smothered, they will surely withdraw. So, give them the freedom to roam and do their own thing. We’re unlikely to ask for help because given our analytical mind and attention to detail we’ll probably do it better than anyone else anyway. And Virgos don’t like to show any weakness or what’s going on under the surface, which results in a calm exterior and a do-it-myself attitude.
Reason #8: Virgos work hard, so get used to it.
One of the traits Virgos are most proud of is their work ethic. Their motto is “no pain, no gain.” They work hard at everything, including their careers, their relationships, their parenting and their hobbies.They have very little tolerance for people who don't give 100 percent to what they do, so at the very least, give 100 percent to your relationship with them, and understand that work typically comes before play.
Reason #9: Virgos are definitely not " Virgins ".
Don't let this sign fool you. They are represented by a virgin, but they are some of the most sexual and passionate people you will ever meet. Their sexuality is very important to them, and if they connect with you, you're in for a wild ride! Though they may be reserved at first, once you make them feel safe, you will be the recipient of their unbridled passion. Don't take this for granted. Remember that they give 100 percent to everything, so reciprocation is appreciated!
Reason #10: Virgos set high standards.
No sign is more critical of themselves and others than Virgos. Their standards are ridiculously high. They need the people they love to remind them no one is perfect and they need to focus on their great qualities. It can get tiresome, but someone has to do it. Don’t fall in love with a Virgo because they are a perfectionist and no matter how much you tell them they are good enough, their greatest flaw is seeing everything they think they lack. They are high achievers and goodie goodies. Everyone makes assumptions about them like they are trying to make everyone look bad but the truth is they are just trying to be good enough for themselves. What they consider average is everyone else’s extraordinary. But they don’t see it that way. They are painfully modest and never give themselves credit where credit is due.
Reason #11: Don’t take a Virgo for granted.
Virgos are fiercely loyal and give 100 percent to their loved ones, but they won't be used or taken for granted. Once Virgos make up their minds that they're not getting what they're giving, they will promptly show you the door with little drama. If they suspect they are in a one-sided relationship or friendship, you will get a one-way ticket out of their lives. They just don't believe in investing in someone who isn't investing in them. A Virgo will never ask or expect much of you, so remember to thank them for everything that they do for you. We often forget to thank people for the numerous selfless things they do for us. Take our parents, for instance. The number one reason Virgos walk out of relationships is when they see lack of gratitude.
Reason #12: Don’t mess with them or you will regret it for the rest of your life.
Virgos are protective of their heart, so if you hurt them you’re in trouble. Sometimes Virgo can be too kind for their own good and they may find that less savory characters try to take advantage their generosity. Virgo hates back stabbing and talking from behind. When they get tired of your bullshit they'll pretend you don't exist and anything you do won't mean shit to them. When provoked their inner demon will come out and they’ll be sure to put you in your place in the way that only a Virgo can. As Virgos have such a good memory, once they have been hurt they find it difficult to forgive the person. They can hold grudges for far too long. A Virgo has a tremendous amount of love to give, and they just want to be loved in return. They are happiest when they have love to come home to. Virgo is always looking for someone they can love and trust for a lifetime. As it's been said, Virgo likes to make other people happy, but it is important that they make themselves happy in return.